Staying Safe and Responsible During Detty December: A Guide for Diaspora Returnees

Detty December is that magical time of year when Lagos comes alive with non-stop parties, family reunions, beach vibes, and unforgettable nights. For many diaspora returnees, it’s the ultimate homecoming—a chance to reconnect with your roots, indulge in jollof rice marathons, and dance till dawn. But amid the excitement, it’s easy to get carried away.

This year, let’s flip the script and prioritize responsible fun. Inspired by the Lagos State Office of Diaspora Affairs’ partnership with the AIDS Control Agency to distribute condoms, lubricants, and HIV test kits, this guide is designed to help you enjoy Detty December safely. From responsible drinking and safe sex to everyday safety tips, we’ll cover how to make memories you’ll be proud of—not regrets you’ll want to forget.

Celebrate the vibes—not the risks. Detty December should leave you with joy, connection, and good stories to tell, not health scares or avoidable mishaps.

1. Responsible Drinking: Party Smart, Not Hard

Alcohol is often part of festive celebrations, but during Detty December—when it flows as freely as Lagos traffic—excessive drinking can lead to poor judgment, health risks, accidents, and unsafe situations. From rooftop bars in VI to street-side spots in Ikeja, the temptation is real. Here’s how to keep it balanced:

• Set Limits Before You Start: Decide on a drink cap per night (for example, 2–3 drinks) and stick to it. Alternate with water or non-alcoholic options like zobo or Chapman to stay hydrated in the humid heat.

• Use the Buddy System: Go out with trusted friends who can watch your back. If someone’s had too much, call a ride-hailing service like Bolt or Uber—never drive under the influence. Nigerian roads are no joke, especially at night.

• Know Your Mixes: Avoid mixing drinks or accepting mystery concoctions. Stick to reputable spots and keep an eye on your glass to reduce the risk of spiking. If you feel unwell or “off,” seek help immediately—better safe than sorry.

Being in control allows you to fully enjoy the moment and stay safe.

2. Safe Sex: Protect Yourself and Your Partners

Detty December’s energy often sparks new connections, reunions, and rekindled friendships. While intimacy is a personal choice, safe sex is a shared responsibility—sexual health should always come first. With Lagos State agencies stepping up to provide free condoms, lubricants, and HIV test kits, there’s no excuse not to prioritize protection.

• Consent Is Key: Always ensure enthusiastic, mutual consent. No means no—full stop. Respect boundaries and communicate openly.

• Gear Up: Condoms aren’t just for preventing pregnancy; they’re your best defense against sexually transmitted infections (STIs) such as HIV, gonorrhea, and chlamydia. Take advantage of free kits from designated distribution points or pharmacies. Lubricants also reduce friction and lower the risk of tears.

• Get Tested: If you’re sexually active, consider getting an HIV test before and after the festivities. Testing is quick, confidential, and empowering. Many clinics in Lagos offer free or low-cost services—check the Lagos State AIDS Control Agency (LSACA) for locations.

• Know Your Emergency Options: Be informed about where to access emergency contraception or post-exposure prophylaxis (PEP) if needed. Pharmacies like HealthPlus are widely available.

• Avoid Sex Under Heavy Intoxication: Alcohol and drugs can impair judgment and compromise consent, increasing the risk of unsafe sex.

Practising safe sex helps prevent STIs, including HIV, as well as unplanned pregnancies—ensuring that pleasure does not come at a long-term cost. Remember, safe sex isn’t a buzzkill; it’s smart adulting.

3. General Safety Tips: Navigate Lagos Like a Pro

Beyond drinks and dates, Detty December demands street smarts—especially for returnees who’ve been away.

• Health and Hygiene: With Lagos’ warm weather and lively social scene, it’s important to take simple steps to stay well. Wash your hands regularly, use hand sanitizer, stay hydrated, and keep routine vaccinations up to date.

• Road and Personal Safety: Stick to well-lit areas, avoid flashing valuables, and use trusted ride-hailing services. Stay alert in busy nightlife zones and don’t hesitate to leave situations that feel unsafe.

• Cultural Sensitivity: Embrace the culture but respect it. Dress appropriately for events, tip service workers fairly, and be mindful in mixed company. Lagos evolves quickly—when in doubt, ask locals.

• Budget Wisely: Festivities add up fast. Track your spending to avoid post-holiday stress. Use mobile banking and cards rather than carrying large amounts of cash.

Celebrate the Vibes, Not the Risks

Your health should never take a holiday. Late nights, poor sleep, and constant partying can weaken your immune system.

Stay balanced by:

• Getting adequate rest

• Eating well and staying hydrated

• Seeking medical help promptly when unwell

• Knowing where to access healthcare services in Lagos

A healthy body ensures you enjoy every part of your homecoming.

Be a Positive Ambassador

Diaspora returnees play an influential role in shaping attitudes and behavior. By choosing responsibility, you set a positive example and contribute to a safer, healthier festive season.

Celebrating responsibly also supports Lagos State’s commitment to public health, safety, and sustainable tourism—ensuring Detty December remains enjoyable for everyone.

Wrapping It Up: Make Detty December Legendary for the Right Reasons

Detty December is about joy, culture, connection, and that unbeatable Naija spirit. By embracing responsible behaviors, you’re not just protecting yourself—you’re contributing to a healthier, safer community. Kudos to Lagos State initiatives making vital resources accessible; let’s support and use them.

If you’re a diaspora returnee, share your tips in the comments. What’s your go-to move for staying safe during the holidays?

Have fun. Stay safe. Protect your health.Let’s make Detty December memorable—for the right reasons.

Disclaimer: This blog is for informational purposes only and does not replace professional medical or personal advice.